Resources
Relationship Books
Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch
Relationship Cure by John Gottman
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work by John Gottman
Why Him? Why Her? by Helen Fisher
Walking on Eggshells by Jane Isay
Why Won’t You Apologize by Harriet Lerner
Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Wired For Love by Stan Tatkin
Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love by Levine and Heller
Dance of Fear by Harriet Lerner
Walking on Eggshells by Mason & Kreger
parenting books
And Baby Makes Three by John Gottman
Brainstorm by Daniel Seigel
Just Because It’s Wrong Doesn’t Make it Right by Barbara Coloroso
Parenting From The Inside Out by Seigel and Hartzell
Explosive Child by Ross Greene
Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Faber and Mazlish
Stepcoupling by Wisdom and Green
The Whole Brain Child by Daniel Seigel
The Awakened Family: How to Raise Empowered, Resilient, and Conscious Children by Shefali Tsabary
Age of Opportunity by Laurence Steinberg
Screenwise by Devorah Heitner
Raising Human Beings by Ross Greene
Under Pressure by Lisa Damour
Bored and Brilliant by Mandoush Zomorodi
Anxious Kids Anxious Parents by Wilson & Lyons
Masterminds Wingmen by Rosalind Wiseman
Grown and Flown by Heffernan & Harrington
Raising Resilient Children by Fjelstad & McBride
Getting to Calm by Kastner & Wyatt
growth-minded books
Dare to Lead by Brene Brown
The Five Temptations of a CEO by Patrick Lencioni
Guiding Principles for Life; Beyond Victim Consciousness by Forrest and Meagner
Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner
Quiet by Susan Cain
Emotional Intelligence by Goleman
Daring Greatly by Brene Brown
The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin
The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek
Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done by John Acuff
The Four Agreements: A Practice Guide to Personal Freedom by Ruiz
Being Relational: The Seven Ways to Quality Interaction & Lasting Change by Senft & Senft
Permission to Feel: Unlocking the Power of Emotions, to Help Our Kids, Ourselves, and Our Society Thrive by Marc Brackett
The Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor
How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram Kendi
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Nagoski, Ph.D and Nagoski, DMA
The Coaching Habit by Bungay Stanier
uncoupling books
Conscious Uncoupling by Thomas
The Co-Parenting Handbook by Karen Bonnell
The Co-Parenting Survival Guide by Thayer and Zimmerman
We’re Still Family by Constance Ahrons
Mom’s House, Dad’s House by Isolina Ricci
Stepparent’s Survival Guide: A Workbook for Creating a Happy Blended Family by Susan Ziegahn
Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum
Joint Custody With A Jerk by Ross and Corcoran
Co-Parenting With A Toxic Ex by Amy Baker
Dinosaur Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families by Brown & Brown
So, What’s Your Proposal by Bill Eddy
Will I Ever Be Free of You by Karl McBride
When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron
Listed below is an ongoing collection of videos and podcasts that are frequently recommended.
Relationship & intimacy
A conversation with the director of the Marriage and Family Health Center and the author of "Intimacy and Desire."
In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire?
Infidelity is the ultimate betrayal. But does it have to be? Relationship therapist Esther Perel examines why people cheat, and unpacks why affairs are so
What are the aspects of trust? Brene Brown describes what we need to trust ourselves and others in her acronymn BRAVING
children & Divorce
Neurodivergence
Loss & grief
communication & resolution
Drama Triangle Explained
Learn the about the roles that keep you stuck in the drama triangle and have you repeating issues in your life. Also learn about the rolls that support you in living in presence where you can permanently solve your life's challenges.
People seem to fit into Four Tendencies: Upholders, Questioners, Obligers, and Rebels.
body, heart & mind
Brené Brown explores what can happen when people confront their shame head-on. Her own humor, humanity and vulnerability shine through every word.
leadership & Career
parenting
neuroscience & biology
This is an extract taken from Helen Fisher's "This is Your Brain on Love" It focuses on her talking about the four personality types and explaining what they are.
In this talk, relationship expert Stan Tatkin explores why we fight from the perspective of neuroscience - and how to give your relationship a fighting chance.
Helen Fisher presents study findings on why people fall in love with one person and not another.